Introducing something new into your intimate life can feel like a big step especially if you and your partner haven’t explicitly discussed trying flavored products before. This guide is designed to help you navigate that conversation with honesty, playfulness, and confidence. We’ll walk you through communication strategies, how to present the idea in a way that feels natural, and how to explore together in a way that deepens your connection and trust. Great intimacy is built on open communication, mutual respect, and willingness to play. Let’s get started.
There are many reasons couples explore flavored sprays:
– Spice Things Up: Add novelty and playfulness to your routine.
– Deepen Connection: Trying something new together builds intimacy and shared excitement.
– Explore Fantasy: Use the experience as foreplay or part of your intimate play.
– Enhance Sensation: The flavor and moisture add a new dimension to kissing and oral play.
– Build Confidence: Exploring together in a judgment-free way increases sexual confidence for both partners.
Choose a calm, private time, not during an argument or in public. Maybe after a date night or when you’re both relaxed.
Try phrases like:
– “I came across this flavored spray brand, and I thought it looked fun. Would you ever want to try something like that?”
– “I’ve been thinking about ways we could explore more together. There’s this product I’m curious about. Want to check it out?”
– “I found this thing, and I think it could be really fun for us. No pressure at all, but I’d love to hear what you think.”
If your partner is hesitant, ask why. Their concerns might be about cost, comfort, or something else entirely. Listen with openness.
Frame it as something you want to explore *together*, not something you’re asking them to do for you.
Your partner might feel:
Normalize the conversation. “Lots of couples explore new things. It’s actually pretty common.”
Reassure them: “This isn’t about doing anything ‘right.’ It’s just about having fun and connecting.”
Offer to read information together or show them reviews. Knowledge reduces anxiety.
Let your partner pick which flavor to try first. This builds investment and excitement.
Phone away, door locked, lights dimmed or at a level that feels comfortable.
Tease a little. Tell your partner what you’re excited to try.
Apply the spray and take your time exploring. No rush.
Use phrases like “How does that feel?” or “I like when you…” to maintain that open dialogue.
Ask your partner what they liked and what they'd change.
Try different flavors to keep things fresh. Our Flavor Quiz can help you discover new favorites
Maybe it's a "flavor night" once a week or whenever you want to add extra playfulness.
Use this as a stepping stone to discuss other fantasies or experiences you'd both like to explore.
Sweet Nuttins sprays use premium, body-safe ingredients. Review our Safety Guide for detailed information.
Our sprays are water-based and safe with condoms. No surprises or incompatibilities.
If either of you has known sensitivities, review the ingredient list together first.
Just because you tried it once doesn't mean you have to keep trying it. Check in regularly: "Do you still want to do this?"
That's okay! Not everything has to be 50/50. Maybe one partner uses it solo, or you save it for special occasions. Communication is key.
Pleasure is subjective. Try a different flavor or approach. Not every product works for every couple—and that's completely normal.
Absolutely. We offer discreet, unmarked shipping. Your secret is safe.
Exploring new things together whether it’s flavored sprays or anything else is one way to maintain connection and excitement in a long-term relationship. The conversation, the playfulness, the willingness to try something new: that’s what deepens intimacy.
Ready to explore? Browse our Flavor Collections, take our Flavor Quiz, or dive into our Blog for more ideas.
